This Kelvin scene just came together for me

"Sometimes it seems like everyone knows about this other Jim Kirk. The man I could have been, the things I'll do or should have done. All my life I've lived in my father's shadow, his legacy, and now I'm also living in my own. Do you... do you have any idea what that's like?"

Spock merely raises an eloquent eyebrow, and after it sinks in a moment, Jim nods. "Touché."